{"id":312,"date":"2026-04-08T19:07:48","date_gmt":"2026-04-08T23:07:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/riseafterheartbreak.com\/she-was-my-person\/"},"modified":"2026-04-08T19:08:29","modified_gmt":"2026-04-08T23:08:29","slug":"she-was-my-person","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/riseafterheartbreak.com\/es\/she-was-my-person\/","title":{"rendered":"She Was My Person"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>This story was shared anonymously through our <a href=\"\/es\/share-your-story\/\">Comparte Tu Historia<\/a> page.<\/em><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>ok so I don&#8217;t really do this kind of thing but here goes.<\/p>\n<p>my best friend of 14 years just&#8230; stopped. no fight. no blowup. she just slowly pulled away and one day I realized we hadn&#8217;t talked in two months and she didn&#8217;t care.<\/p>\n<p>people don&#8217;t really talk about friend breakups. when it&#8217;s a relationship everyone gets it \u2014 sad playlists, &#8220;you deserve better&#8221; texts. but when your best friend ghosts you? people just shrug. &#8220;people grow apart.&#8221; cool thanks that doesn&#8217;t make it hurt less.<\/p>\n<p>she was the person I called first for everything. got the job? call her. bad date? call her. she was my person. not in a romantic way but in the way where she knew every version of me and chose to stay. until she didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>I spent months replaying conversations in my head looking for clues. I even typed out a long message asking what happened. never sent it. still sitting in my drafts.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t really know when it started getting easier. I think I just got tired of being sad about someone who wasn&#8217;t sad about me. 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